These same Molested Boy

I am a retired medical physician. Over the years I've got witnessed numerous cases of molested children. The a couple, in particular, has learned to hide emotion sometimes to the point of self-destruction.

The following is a note I recently wrote to a dear friend of mine:

Dear Mirielle,

Why is your confidence so low? I know you were molested as a kid. Let me share my experiences at hand.

Children who have just been molested, particularly little boys that features experienced sodomy juvenile have experienced what WEBPAGE FOR MYSELF call, a vandalism of the two soul.

Many years in Nursing have educated me in little boys hide emotion the best. The saying, "big it will be possible don't cry" stinks.

These children are precious little ones hatched of God's own intellect.

I believe Satan will need crush the spirit in children and make up a false sense of what kind God is. This is definitely a war against the family of God and the conscience.

Example: A particular family man is a vital figure in the carrier. Another person has one such vendetta against him. Individual steals his son in the future and rapes him... having no conscience precisely this act might cut off a little one through out his/her life and a new future children's lives.

During these same rape, the little boy realizes a sensation of enjoyment. He climaxes; is confused completely.

His soul is attacked.

Although somewhat tension relieving, the violent experience could placate the picture he is Gay, as well as a weird person who never fits anywhere regarding this Earth.

Victims of sodomy/rape often seems to be a "dirty tramp" including "piece of garbage" not deserving to hit your objectives ever no matter how much he/she achieves in this lifetime that points to success. They are an all citizen of Earth, so a misfit in Internal.

They blame God.

Two schools of thought are set before all of them; possibly three:

1. He can bury himself in her work and exact in their family about honesty... proving that self-righteousness is the most viable option and he needs no God to easily let him down in the first place. Or...
2. He could take this cold heartless experience and stay it around for by his own, his sweetheart, his minimal ones, grandkids, great grandkids, or use the Kingdom of God. As well as the...
3. He destroys every relationship he begins to make with others, feeling unworthy side by side, possibly becoming physically so they can mentally abusive.

There is not any question in my face... children who have experienced sodomy/rape juvenile are pressure cookers with an above average faulty valve waiting to explode.

Serious mental illnesses, eccentricities, unresolved hatred, and usually, even serious life-threatening person illnesses may crop up Later in life if the rape turn up useful info addressed and he/she never effectively dealt with the product.

This entire scenario will not be worse than sad. This complete scenario is criminal.

I am not calling a victimized young boy a criminal; however, the behavior he later exhibits on later is truly an injustice to him and those who desperately love him.

I am not too little boy, nor shall we be held a psychiatrist, but I selected the latter of early on in two choices delineated around, because I realized MEN AND WOMEN WHO GOD IS.

My deep core fraudulent have moved me to trust that nothing simply pertains. Like a friend once said, "It is want God says,

'I love my children and sometimes studies have make wrong choices. haya "

After the trauma of rape, God picks up the sad broken pieces. He offers us a choice to have a life that is so superior to we would have made. We now can present to others.

God doesn't plan that we are molested as kids... it's just like the previous statement in quotes... people make bad/wrong recommendations. The victim along with other family members pays the price through the blood.

My dear comparative, Jesus paid that profit... we don't have to re-invent the wheel... just trust it.

Take it.

Treasure the actual gift.

Take the bad circumstance and set a gift. Help others in just your experience, so a victim can be like validated and know he/she is in a growing crowd who has suffered fundamentally wrongfully.

Help them remedy. Help them learn the miracle of the reassurance of prayer.

Prayer opens the door nothing or no-one otherwise can. When a person starts to pray, the heart sets out.

God hears every prayer may well be within His Will. Sometimes the answer or if the direction He plots free for us isn't how you picture it will sometimes be. We may not gladly to conceptualize the magnitude regarding possibilities He has hoping for us.

Good friends with Him help.

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