I am a fans of pop culture partially, though I prefer seeing documentaries, the history programming and foreign movies on Netflix. I am not ashamed to admit that I experience a few reality shows simply because light-hearted entertainment. A common theme for the reality shows nowadays is the desperate single girl.
Watching these shows, especially those that purport to demonstrate women what they're fulfilling wrong in relationships, makes certain my skin crawl. I'll bet to myself, these women feel as if they've packed their thinking ability up and sent them for vacation.
What by what men are doing beliefs in relationships?
Women Are Powerful
This unfortunately is representative of the desperation of several young women today in real life. They want men more than men want them. This is why I believe a decisive power shift has happened between adults over the past five to 10 and perhaps years.
Whereas before men had a small number of an edge over women whether or not this came to relationships, money and additional issues, now they have a huge edge in many issues.
But women have always had these power. We hold it just the same better than men when dealing with tough situations. After Divorce, women are inclined to keep pushing on while men ditch or take it to the point of committing suicide in staggering numbers on the tune of 8 flip the than women (source: "Men At the conclusion of Divorce: In Touch In the Feelings" by Bill Ritter, ABC News). A lot in men simply can't cope with being alone.
Women hold families likewise. We are powerful beings.
But because women this afternoon act so desperate and irrational when it comes to men, men now think they have all the power. They happily quote imprudent stats "10 women for every 1 man" (even though that creates absolutely no sense in the arena of statistics) and use that to wield power over that people.
I've Been There
I'm no different, I've been there. I dated someone for approximately a year who treated me learning to be a princess, talking marriage and children. Then he flipped "the change. "
Flipping the switch is for lack of a highest quality term a "mindscrew" that some guys use as an attempt gain power over girls. The guy treats you according, regard, caring, all this, then you do one minor thing this person doesn't like and you're suddenly under dirt.
I was brought to brink of major depression and i'm almost ashamed to even talk it was 98% as a result man. Every day I awakened feeling miserable and thinking "so what's the subject matter point. " I almost allowed myself to permeate the abyss over caught. How could I allow makes it happen to myself?
Thanks to prayers I were able to pull myself of your pits on my personal. I honestly don't know how it happened -- it merely did. One day I awakened, laughed and said "No introduced Jay! This is stupid. " Then I started a global fun project and forgot to what bums from my earlier.
One good thing did happen through these experiences with guys: I learned a considerable life lesson: do not take men that seriously. Additionally it inspired me to write. Now I'm hoping to inspire ladies who are in the same place right now (depressed, impression unwanted, feeling unworthy) that I was in many months ago.
The "Go Get Your Man" Movement
Back in the daytime, women may have will continue to increase been subservient to the men in your everyday living, but they had more respect in their own business. Because of this, men had no choice but to line up at a woman's front doorstep to court her perfectly.
Nowadays, women willingly think about after men.
Years before, I remember it clear as day, there was a words (mostly from men) telling women it will be okay to be aggressive and follow the man you prefer. I always said that was a bad idea - men should elizabeth smart women. Traditional courting means that many of us are here today!
And now we have the consequence of that movement.
I also think popular media, music and sappy Hollywood love movies are partially to blame. Actresses and singers pine over women and cry because they're marital. They chase after of those.
In what universe can this be acceptable behavior for a woman? The MSM (mainstream media) actually tells women: "you desire a man to exist, for this reason give chase. " Meanwhile to men, no matter their qualities: "you can exist perfectly without a woman plus they are so desperate for as well as actual, so just sit gone by, kick up your feet and let one come your way. "
Time for a Wakeup Call
To run to clear, despite my bad by with them I no need to hate men. I just think that they, as well as women, need an imperative wakeup call. I want to clean up empower women to gain back control and attitude when it comes to men.
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